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Broken Broken I had a message sent telling me that “I would love to break you” and I see it often on here…. breaking a sub. Why on earth would any man want to break their submissive? What so she has no opinion? Now that would be a great life yes Sir, no Sir, whatever you say Sir. I don’t argue with or disrespect My Master intentionally ever, let me repeat ever!!! But he is a highly intelligent man, if I never had an opinion, he would be bored with me in no time. Or maybe it means to break me physically, to take away my right to refuse. Imagine that? There are times My Master sends me a cheeky task at work and I have to say “please may I complete that in a bit someone is with me” of course He understands this and allows it. Or if he asks a sexual favor and for whatever reason I can’t oblige, to not be able to voice that would at times be dangerous. Or maybe breaking me means taking away my right to emotions, to not be able to express that I am feeling anything negative. How would that help either party? How would it help me to grow? Or My Master to understand my needs? Maybe it’s so any man who wanted to use me for their pleasure could do so? How would My Master ensure my safety if that was the case? How would I know who owns me and holds the power? The only kind of broken that makes any sense to me, is the breaking of bad habits lead by My Master, self-loathing, self-harm, those kinds of habits. I have submitted to My Master wholly and completely, His wish IS my desire, His needs ARE my honor, being HIS completes me. That doesn’t mean that He has broken me quite the opposite He is building me into a better version of me. I chose and choose to allow Him to have power over me…. because He wants me to grow, not because he wants me “broken” mastersslutslave~  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.” |
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I try NOT to break my stuff... Why would you treat your submissive with less care and respect than you would some silly inanimate object?!
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The main difference between BDSM and abuse is consent and sanity. A Dominant must have a clear/sane state of mind capable of separating fantasy from reality. Consent includes discussion an agreement on boundries, consent (must be) fluid an ongoing. BDSM is not meant to be a one-sided power trip of abuse without consent that is criminal, not kink. MsSwanger Journey into my soul.
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7/19/2018 4:45 am |
The main difference between BDSM and abuse is consent and sanity. A Dominant must have a clear/sane state of mind capable of separating fantasy from reality. Consent includes discussion an agreement on boundries, consent (must be) fluid an ongoing. BDSM is not meant to be a one-sided power trip of abuse without consent that is criminal, not kink.
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Right. I think it is maybe a sort of fetish thing for men with little selfesteem?/ womenhatred!? misogyny. I read about that too, here and on FET. I think only breaking bad habits, if the partner is also convinced it is a bad habit. is the only way to use 'breaking'.. but that is a habit, NOT a submissive. I truely and deeply distrust such behaviour/talk= RUN While you can! A dominant holds his submissive high, wants her to grow into someting, some better version of herself. I agree with you! 
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Posting this because I think it's relevant. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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