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brandygirasol 54T
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7/19/2018 6:09 am

BDSM to me is just more variety of SEX and FOREPLAY for ADULT PLAYTIME ... However everyone isn't into the same things so I never get irritated when a guy hits on me- because thats why I'm here ... What aggravates me is being hit on by guys STUPIDLY making assumptions and not bothering to read my profile first LAZY & STUPID is the problem with many of these guys around here trying to get laid


Pervert4u269 43M

7/19/2018 7:59 am

It doesn't seem to be JUST the world of BDSM though. Unless we say that even a loving relationship is still a form of it when a normally dominant woman becomes submissive at least in the bedroom.

But yes, the double standard even in the online world for 'normal' dating is annoying. Men are expected to be wealthy, successful, sophisticated, athletically fit,funny, and willing to be loyal to a woman as if she's the only thing that matters. Or as you phrased it, 'having their shit together' While many women don't even meet their own criteria. (Emotional baggage runs rampant.)
Sure, maybe some have been burned by having a dead-beat partner and it made their life miserable. I can understand not wanting a parasitic relationship.
But there are also many that either have that Disney Princess disease, or think too highly of themselves. ( I'm not implying a woman shouldn't have confidence. But saying you're a 16/10 when in actuality your personality sucks like at a -5 and your looks combined maybe make you a 3/10. There's a problem there.)

Too many people are ignorant to their own hypocrisies and don't practice what they preach. It's a frustrating reality.



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