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jenny14 75T  
90121 posts
12/7/2018 10:12 pm

sub

I think you have "hit the nail on the head"!! Like my dressing , it is NOT just about sex!

It is a mental Life-style.....


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


maletramp 64M
2092 posts
12/7/2018 10:32 pm

Of this I am certain.. I would rather kiss your owwies than cause them..


brandygirasol 54T
9365 posts
12/7/2018 10:49 pm

WOW Hard to look upon those pics you have there, Sexy Sister


Dom4BedSlut 57M

12/8/2018 12:37 am

you have evolved


Gowron 69M
3089 posts
12/8/2018 2:21 am

    Quoting  :

I enjoy light spanking. For the meaning of it, not for the pain.
I can't understand bruises and welts.
Much less tits pierced by long pins or nailed to wooden boards.
Or the labia full of metal rings or sewn shut.


rosaenaluin 65F
10827 posts
12/8/2018 2:28 am

Funny, you mentioning this.

i have the same "problem", on that Dutch sm site.
All the self proclaimed "d"s, getting a totall full blown panick attack, when i tell them, i am not at all interested in sex.
I am only interested in his Dominance, His sadistic need.

Because, i think that if he and i are a match, he will be able to get as much sex as he needs, but it is NOT ABOUT SEX.
it is about the power/authority transfer.

totall dumbfounded. hahah
such a good trick to get rid of all those fakers.

( i have nothing against sex, only within that power dynamic...)


DancingDom 74M
22475 posts
12/8/2018 5:07 am

I have whipped up lots of things in the kitchen and I have whipped many a female ass without putting my penis in an orifice. Some, becasue I did not want to. There were those I would have liked to extend teh play into the bedrooms and boink till the cows came home.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


drmgirl622 68F  
25880 posts
12/8/2018 7:15 am

Just the thought of the pain sometimes can bring one to the edge...….no sex required


Steven19632 105M
212 posts
12/8/2018 10:34 am

I was once told by a much older Domina that IF your doing BDSM right, who the hell has any energy left for sex. She believed they were two separate things entirely and that each had their own place. I know couples and other partners who , after a good session, may or may not engage in sex. But honestly I can relate. It is the bondage, discipline, pain and the knowledge that this person Dom/me, Sadist is going to bring you on a journey and then make sure you get back in one piece. Not just have their fun and leave you in a state of mush.
my 2 cents


Dreamcatcher__ 87M
7019 posts
12/8/2018 12:19 pm

I choose not to be type cast. I prefer to inflict humiliation rather than pain, though I don't mind exploring and testing their pain limits. Otherwise I'm a straight-up odalisque master.

Slaves and submissives are for pleasure. The more mental control they surrender, the more cock worship they give, and the more mental manipulation-, cock- and penetration-induced orgasms they have, the better.


Knottyash73 55M
31 posts
12/8/2018 10:14 pm

As a dom I prefer to keep both separate. I derive my pleasure from the enjoyment my sub gets from our session. The more she enjoys it the better I feel. I have combined both but predominantly I am constantly looking to explore and expand her boundaries. My aim is to always leave her excited in a way that regular vanilla can never do. She should feel more exhilarated and sexually charged than she thought possible. Therefore craving our next session as a drug addict craves his fix. Therefore sex is omitted.


anteater14 61M
2229 posts
12/10/2018 2:11 am

I think of some considerations myself but the majority of videos out there invariably involve some poor damsel having to suck some sadists dick before being punished almost to death ...... sadly this does not portray the desires of some, but more the wet dreams of the weak minded others.

Perhaps it is this image that torture ultimately leads to sex of some sort that has so ingrained itself that it is accepted as what should be the norm - as you and I think, this is not necessarily the case.

Nice electro pic choice BTW - very hot.

D xxx

Carpe Diem - the past is history, and the future is bleak.


benoite 104F
6238 posts
12/10/2018 2:37 pm

I had had a few timid and not very successful experiences when I met G-Dom.
When we first scened in 2008 I was amazed that he remained fully dressed.
I even made me insecure at some point.
But in the end I could relax into what he did
BECAUSE I realised that sex was not on the agenda that day.
I could fully concentrate on my experience, on my feelings,
nothing else was expected from me.
It was sooo liberating!
Today we do both, of course!
B


Everything in the world is about sex, except sex, sex is about power. - Oscar Wilde


EllytrannyGirl 40T
1 post
12/10/2018 3:43 pm

A sadists dream job.. work as a pre-emptive funeral director, or enforcement officer who arrests gays in Iran? Butcher with private hosted parties.. Farmer with spare time, hotelier with basement.. hmmh


CawintShard 68M

12/10/2018 4:13 pm

"...any sadists who would gladly practice their art, without incorporating use of their cock in session?" YES. The use of one's cock in a session, for me, is not necessary at all. It's all about the practice of the art as you imply. If the art does not require the cock, so be it. If I am looking for compliance and obedience in given moments of intimacy, that is what I want. I want her compliance. That pleasures me.


SylviaSoulier 58F
8209 posts
12/13/2018 3:52 pm



My sadist rolls that way - he sees impact play and the part of his psyche that thrills to that as creative and non-sexual.

When he plays with me it is always after and separate from our sexual relationship. The masochist he plays with regularly he has never fucked, not does he want to.

They are out there SN ❤️


CawintShard 68M

12/17/2018 6:32 pm

I haven't eaten a thing all day. That looks good.


LuvSpanky 42F

2/13/2019 6:16 am

I am not at that stage yet. Yikes!



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