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RE: The importance of sex in a relationship 8/27/2004
Sex is not the primary reason or motivation for a relationship,
but within this lifestyle, sex does play an important part
alongside the psychological and emotional well-being.
Not all sex is intercourse/copulation!
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Sex takes many forms from self and mutual stimulation to
masturbation onto play and onwards. Many people are sexually
fulfilled without intercourse and the sex ...
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Starting Over W/New Dom 8/26/2004
I've been "off the market" for awhile,
and am in the process of looking for a new D/s relationship.
I've read all kinds of tips for subs looking to establish
relationships and contracts here on alt.com, but those
were geared more towards female subs, male Dom's.
<br>
I'm a male sub, however. I've filled out a profile
here (and been completely honest to my likes/dislikes)
and ...
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Just a little not from a friend 8/25/2004
On Monday she gave each student his or her list.
Before long, the entire
class was smiling. "Really?" she heard whispered.
"I
never knew that I
meant anything to anyone!" and, "I didn't
know others
liked me so much."
were most of the comments.
<br>
No one ever mentioned those papers in class again. She
never knew if
they discussed them after class or with their ...
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re:how long is a peice of rope 8/5/2004
get a life, yes weve all been through it you meet someone
you think their the one and it doesnt work, move on do other
shit to get her of your mind, and when your ready youll be
back there ! rock on Dude
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How long is a peice of rope? 8/3/2004
It seems to me that everyone is rushing aboput in their daily
lives. Is speed the essence of living? I believe that when
entering into a bdsm relationship, that he time taklen
to get to know yourself and that of your partner is crucial.
If not enough time is taken to self acknowledge your feelings
emotions, fantasies, etc then how can you be truthful and
open with your partner? My ...
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Stay on your toes. 8/3/2004
Relationships are in our hard-wired nature. Fourtunatly
or unfourtunatly, however you care to see it. I am a young
writter, but I have learned my fare share already. I also
relize there is much still left to learn. Being the kind
person I am I am going to share one of my harder learned lessons
in relationship construction.
Trust is something we all know we need in a relationship, ...
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SERVITUDE 7/25/2004
To my mind, domination over another is won by fulfilling
the dersires of another....not your own. To read another's
desires and draw out thier passion is the most rewarding
thing we can experiance. Servitude is freely given at that
point and becomes real and meaningful, no longer a simple
game.
> No two women are ever the same and should be respected
and treated as individuals. ...
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The importance of sex in a relationship 7/16/2004
Is sex really that important in a relationship. I know that
we That way the realtionship leave you nothing to desire.
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Tribute to my Master Richard (punter11) 7/15/2004
SIR, YOU FIRST CAME INTO MY LIFE AS WORDS ON A SCREEN, NEVER
REALISED THEN YOUR WORDS WERE MORE THEN THEY SEEMED. LITTLE
DID I KNOW AT THE TIME IT WOULD BE YOU WHO WOULD CAPTURE MY
HEART, MIND, BODY AND SOUL. MY LIFE WAS TROUBLED, I WAS SAD
AND FEELING EMPTY. BUT ALL THAT CHANGED WHEN YOU CAME ALONG
MY SWEET MASTER RICHARD.I DISCOVERED MY OWN PEICE OF HEAVEN.
I AM BLESSED WITH YOUR KIND ...
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race is an issue 7/13/2004
I am a young white woman who recently started seeing a black
man and I am shocked by the reactions I have gotten from some
people. He treats me very well and I enjoy being with him
so why do some of my "friends" have a problem
with him? I have heard enough nigger jokes in the last couple
weeks to make me puke, and often they are from people who
claim not to be racist. I know some people ...
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how to build a successful relationship 7/12/2004
a good relationship is built slowly no rushing , taking
life as it comes listening and accepting each others limits
and do and donts without bieng pushy if you follow those
few points you shouldnt go far wrong meet youre partner
half way and respect there wishes and get them to meet you
half way it should start moving alongjust nicely this should
avoid arguments and diputes if advice is ...
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Response to Girlfriend from Hell 7/11/2004
Just read your article about your 16 year old "bitchy"
girlfriend. Although 6 years is not a big year difference,
your maturity levels are. Maybe it's time to move on
to someone a little closer to your own age. 16 year old girls
are known for their "bitchiness", you didn't
know that?
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Relationship Preventive Maintenance 7/9/2004
My hope is this text of information will aid people in their
communications with other’s be it vanilla or in the D/s
bdsm lifestyle to prevent needless and unneccessary hardships
from interfering with their relationships.
<br>
I am speaking from personal observation and experience.
<br>
Integrity, in my opinion, is a key to life without regrets.
Trust, is the ...
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"THE OTHER SIDE" 7/7/2004
To start with, I am going to tackle some thoughts on the various
components of BDSM. I won't talk much about the acronym,
but do want to discuss what they are and how they relate to
each other. This may seem like beginner stuff, but you'd
be surprised at how many long time scene players don't
really understand how it all fits together - this can and
does lead to some skewed expectations.
...
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reply to: how to say she's beautiful 7/5/2004
If it please you Sir. To tell a woman she is beautiful is nothing.
But to show it, that is what matters. Hear it frim a woman.
When you tell awoman she is beautiful and that you like to
sleep on her boobs she talkes it at face value. When you take
a nice long look at another woman passing by on the street
you just erased your past 5 compliments. You must let it
show that she is hot. If you ...
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From Russia With Love 7/5/2004
I've met a woman from Russia on a European website.
She is 29 and I am 36. We've been writing emails back
and forth and the relationship appears to be growing into
a long distance one. She does not speak English very well
and uses a translator program to read my emails. Out of respect
I send her and email in English and another of the same content
in Russian using a free online ...
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Relationships can happen here 7/3/2004
Relationships can and do happen here. For the past (almost)
year, with a few ups and downs, a beautiful thing was created
between two consenting-married to vanilla spouses-adults.
Like any relationship, you have to build, learn, and create.
The thing I love about this man, is I, as his subby, can tell
him anything, and while he is my dominant, he lets me be myself.
He knows how to punish me ...
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B honest 6/26/2004
PLease when u meet someone new just b urself and honest.
If u want to build its best way to start.
Dont b something ur not........
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re: Wondering what to do 6/26/2004
I guess it all depends on where Y/you live, and how outgoing
Y/you are. How about a visit to a club? Let Him watch what
O/others do...maybe give a few pointers about what you
would like. Failing that, how about a Munch? General discussion
can help O/one to relax more regarding their feelings.
If circumstances do not allow for these activities, why
not suggest that He looks for an ...
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Feeling stalked 6/20/2004
Have you ever felt like you were being stalked? I started
talking to a nice Dom or so I thought. Not in that mindset
right now, though.
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I cannot sign onto the computer without him messaging me.
I have tried to tell him politely that I do other things on
the computer besides chat. He doesn't seem to get it.
Should I tell him point blank to leave me alone. I cannot ...
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RE: First Meets 6/10/2004
In this modern world of uncertainty, no one can be too cautous.
Yes, even Doms/Masters have a need for safety from explortation,
blackmail, etc. The internet offers numerous opportunities
to meet new people. How wonderful and exciting it can be.
However, it can also be devasting and deadly if you should
fall prey to the wrong person. During my voyage through
the Alt. lifestyle (very short ...
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A Man Lost to Sensitivity? 6/2/2004
I have had many different relationships in my life. The
"innocent" times in high school, where I became
known to a small group of girls for my ability to give good
spankings and wonderfully secure bondage. The woman who
possessed me for a year and made me feel things that a dozen
years later I now find myself craving for again. The intense
sadism and emotion that I shared with my wife ...
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How to say she's beautiful 6/1/2004
To whomever can help me out on this one:
Why is it that every time a guy compliments a women by saying
she's beautiful, 90% of the time the response is bad!
They say "whatever" or "no I'm not"
or "thanks, if only it were true". Barely ever
do you hear a thank you. I do know not to use "pretty"
because that sounds average.
<br>
This probably goes on the same subject, but it's ...
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RE:Long Distance. 5/31/2004
Of course ...anything you want to make work, will work.
I have been in a relationship with a sub that lives 2 1/2 hours
from Me. We get together several weekends a month. (usually)
and vacation together. Is it easy? No, it would be a lot easier
if we could live together, but for now, we can't. When
it is meant to be ...it will be  and trust Me, worth every
hour on the road.
Enjoy ...
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How to built a relationship for Standard Member 5/26/2004
At this time I haven't seen any member, but only very
few profiles without photo.
The only one thing that I can do is to receive winks (none
for now) or see the album of my friend.
<br>
I seems a little few after severla days of navigation on
this site.
I think that should be better to adopt the method of FriendFinder,
where is possible to see all people, but contact only the ...
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Anyone Want a Threesum With a Bi couple ? 5/24/2004
Hi everyone, Our names are Michelle & Chris were 21/F
& 28/M from kent england. Were looking for anyone who
would be up for a threesum with us ?
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Hardest Relationship of all?? 5/23/2004
I am wondering if the crossdressing lifestyle is one of
the hardest of relationships to begin?? I know there are
women out there who have special interests in the TG an crossdressing
lifestyle, but it seems for the avgerage Transgender
and/or Crossdresser, its difficult to meet such a woman...
Alt.com is one of the few sites that I know of, that offer
a chance to meet someone but yet it ...
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Relationship with someone much younger. 5/20/2004
I've been talking to a girl online...but she's
15 years younger than me (I'm 36 and she's 21).
Does anyone have any advise, good or bad experiences...etc.
Any advise would be appreciated. Also, she is the one who
contacted me first...so she must like older men.
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Long Distance. 5/20/2004
Do long distance relationships work? I talking with someone
who lives an hour away...who also has small and
cannot travel.
A few of my past relationships were "weekend only"
types. We would talk 3 or 4 times a week and spend weekends
together...it lasted you 6 years.
Does anyone have any ideas on how to make long distance work?
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Long Distance. 5/20/2004
Do long distance relationships work? I talking with someone
who lives an hour away...who also has small and
cannot travel.
A few of my past relationships were "weekend only"
types. We would talk 3 or 4 times a week and spend weekends
together...it lasted you 6 years.
Does anyone have any ideas on how to make long distance work?
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