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re: no strings 5/18/2004
i totally agree w/ u. wmoen just play mind games. its kinda
freaky actually
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The Importance of Being Prepared 5/17/2004
THE IMPORTANCE OF BEING PREPARED
<br>
Recently, I was given an assignment by a Dominant and was
unable to complete it. There are many reasons, or some might
say excuses, I could offer to explain my failure. Regardless,
I failed and for that I am very sorry.
<br>
Having agreed to the assignment, in fact having requested
one, I am to blame for my failure. ...
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23 Votes
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No Strings. 5/17/2004
Do most women on here say no strings attached...because
they think thats what a guy wants to hear. Wouldn't
you think that enough consistant meetings would possibly
start to look like a relationship?
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14 Votes
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Dommes--take a break now and then! 5/15/2004
I'm a lesbian domme. I'm a hardass, with strict
protocol, and my submissive and I are always in role. I plan
elaborate scenes, and we play very very hard.
<br>
Last weekend, she asked to take me out on a vanilla date.
She asked that we be out of role. I protested a bit for the
fun of it, then accepted.
<br>
That Saturday morning, I received a dozen roses. Then,
when ...
1 Comments,
124 Views,
22 Votes
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just wanting sex or build a relationship? 5/13/2004
i am getting frustrated with Dom's who bascially are
out for only kinky sex. *sigh* i am looking for more of a realtionship..
is it rude to want to know a Dom before You submit? why is it
some Dom's feel You should obey them from the first
hello? Is it wrong to want to know them before i submit?
*sigh*
<br>
confused jenn
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61 Views,
19 Votes
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Every hour - on the hour 5/5/2004
Every hour, on the hour...
<br>
Having been really excited since You said You were coming
to see me, i did all the usual preparations then selected
a blouse and a skirt, thinking the shortest would be good…
then waited.
<br>
The phone sang out a text… i removed my necklace and added
the cuffs… ready… unable to settle… then it was coffee time,
and soon after ...
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24 Votes
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build it with fun Larry`s house is a mile in the sticks so it is secluded and 5/2/2004
I seem to love a guy in drag and all tied up. Is it cruel to make
my boyfriend like that or is it a way of turning him on while
I have total control?
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2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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What do Women like??? 5/1/2004
Ladies, when us guys post pic's what do you like to see????
I would love to know
<br>
X
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26 Votes
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Can you ignore your nature? 4/28/2004
So ever since I was a little girl I knew that there was something
different about me. as a I enjoyed it when I got spanked, (Which
was often)LOL! I remember when I was 14 I was at gym after
school and I had a crush on a teachers aid that was 18. One
day after everyone had left, I was alone with this guy and
he asked me to come to the back office with him because he
wanted to show me ...
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15 Votes
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Can I ever trust again? 4/14/2004
It has been a year since I came out of a very distructive relationship.
I'd like to think that it was just a normal break up.
But the plot was to wild for a movie. Of course I didn't
know any of his diabolical activities till some time after
the relationship had ended...Now I find I can"t trust
anyone. I know deep down that they probably are being judged
unfairly, but the fears are there ...
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20 Votes
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Hard to find a mate 4/14/2004
I know this might sound like whinning, but is it getting
harder to find someone that is compatible with you, specially
if they are not in the same area?
<br>
It seems that we want relationships but aren't willing
to make sacrafices (relocation, change in status, etc.).
Maybe I am wrong but what is the opiion of you guys?
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16 Votes
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Dominant 101 4/12/2004
A dominant relation is one in which one person is given complete
control. By expecting this control the dominant partner
also assumes a level of responsibly for the other partner
and the relationship. It’s not all just fun and play. Your
role as the dominant requires that you to be the decision
maker and the stabling influence in the relationship.
If you’re not willing to except the ...
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52 Votes
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The true meaning of submission? 3/27/2004
It was very aggravating to write you a letter today and then
have the whole bloody thing just deleted away before it
could reach you, and having to start all over again but what
I had to say was this:
You called me loyal little wolf? Loyal is not a word I use
lightly and this will need to be discussed. But little wolf?
I find this name to be utterly charming and I like it well,
but my ...
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57 Votes
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Building a Serious Relationship 3/23/2004
I've recently started coming back out of My sabbatical.
That's a polite way of saying I was licking My wounds
and now I think I've found out why so M/many come back.
After the last time I got "burned", I swore I'd
never return to seeking My one and only sub/slave. But I'm
hoping that I am making some headway.
I can understand why so M/many of My past F/friends have
left. T/they felt ...
1 Comments,
263 Views,
70 Votes
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Aka_Peter's Rules for subs 3/18/2004
RULES FOR SUBS
========================================================
Conditions:
<br>
Preliminary discussion on minor amendments to this document
is acceptable, but if you cannot agree to it's general
principles, the relationship ceases. Once you have accepted
these rules and laws, they are not negotiable. The only
subsequent changes will be made by me and accepted by you. ...
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48 Votes
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Want lust, but so scared to give love a chance 3/11/2004
Here's my dilemma, and maybe you females can help me
out with this.... but, in my life of dating I've been
let down... as most of us have though. I mean, I've had
my share of long-term relationships. I fell in love too
before, and fell hard. Though what brought me in that relationship
and others was sex. I never want to give too much of me knowing
that I am not given what I need and in ...
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12 Votes
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Trust in a partner, especially one that is sexually based, is everything 3/8/2004
For many, the internet allows for them to have an alternative
life that they shroud in secrecy from their own family and
friends. But sadly, many online are forgetting that sex
is based on trust, and if you can't be open and honest
about your a.) Expectations of each other, b.) past sexual
history, c.) who you are and where you really live ... then
how can you expect a complete stranger to ...
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22 Votes
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His first time 2/15/2004
She asked that he call as he made his way to their rendezvous.
Was it to ensure he really had the balls to do it or was it just
so she would know how much time she had to finish her preparations
for his arrival? He said he had a high tolerance for pain
but you just never know if what people say is true until you’ve
had the opportunity to test them, particularly since he
said he was new to ...
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52 Votes
,7.77 Score
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In the beginning 2/10/2004
It was evening, a hot sweaty summer night in July. She was
nervous, scared but inspired. She would finally speak
the things that she dared not speak before. A desire to submit,
a desire to be owned and taken over, it scared her to death,
she always had been dominate. She needed the control to
feel safe, she needed the security of being on top in every
situation. She was sick of the ...
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27 Votes
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P:ower exchange level two: restricted ongoing acquiescence 1/29/2004
Here, the agreement to play casually is extended. The playmates
are agreeing in a spirit of mutual respect to continue to
perform limited physical activites and/or limited role
play together to the satisfaction of feach person's
own needs. Neither is expected to perform any activity
that does not give him/her pleasure or does not enhance
his/her own fantasy. As an ongoing relationship, ...
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63 Votes
,8.09 Score
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Power exchange level three: provisional submission 1/29/2004
This relationship is characterized by sincere concern
for the other's welfare and genuine fondness. Each
partner is willing to devote some time and energy to satisfying
the other's emotional and sexual needs.
<br>
Trust level: Each partner has made a genuine effort to understand
the needs and motivations of the other. The submissive
will not have any real emotional ...
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36 Votes
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Power exchange level four: The covenant of dominance and submission 1/29/2004
This relationship is characterized by deep emotional
involvement and mutual devotion. Each partner desires
to satisfy the other's emotional and sexual needs.
Frequently, the dom and sub have fallen in love. They have
entered a symbtiotic relationship. In some relationships,
daily life retains some, or quite a bit, of the dom/sub flavor
of the bedroom or parlor. "Master" is no longer ...
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103 Votes
,8.88 Score
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Power exchange level five: absolute ownership 1/29/2004
This relationship is characterized by the submissive's
total adoration and obedience to her Master. The Master
is the most important person in the slave's life. The
desire by the sub to give obedience, deference, and deep
devotion is absolute and constant.
<br>
Trust level: The slave maintains the conviction that decisions
made by her Master are never to be questioned. There ...
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106 Votes
,8.15 Score
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Re: Used 1/28/2004
My first question little girl (and you are) is how did you
access this site? There is a very simple explanation for
why you enjoyed the sexualized "attention"
you received. When someone tickles us, we have an involuntary
reaction, the same holds true for sexualized stimulation.
When that type of attention is intermingled with physical
pain and is your initial introduction to sex you ...
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31 Votes
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Control, and essay from a Dom's point of view 1/24/2004
CONTROL
What does it mean, and how is it properly applied from a Dom's
perspective?
*An essay by : Cuff_Master
______________________________________________________________________
Websters Dictionary defines Contol as:
con·trol Pronunciation (k n-tr l )
tr.v. con·trolled, con·trol·ling, con·trols
To exercise authoritative or dominating influence over;direct.
To adjust to a ...
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76 Votes
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Power exchange level one: conditional compliance 1/22/2004
This is an agreement to play casually (do a scene, or a set
of scenes druing a weekend), the SM equivalent of a one night
stand. The playmates are agreeing in a spirit of mutual
respect to perform limited physical activities or role
play together to the satisfaction of their own needs. Neither
person is expected to perform any activity that does not
give him/her pleasure or that does not ...
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47 Votes
,8.02 Score
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Thanks to a pet... 1/8/2004
I lit the candles in my room, vanilla scented – and came back
to my system to await a warm flooding scent of vanilla – to
entice Me back to My room…I am alone, lil’ pet, the wet floods
My thighs – my saturated vagina, nudging Me back to the room.
. .
<br>
I will be back shortly lil’ one. I do miss you – your taste
has lingered in My being since having tasted that ...
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61 Views,
58 Votes
,7.29 Score
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What to get for Christmas 12/18/2003
A little over a year ago my aged 13 died of a brain
tumour. Apart from the obvious crippling grief, there
has been a significant change in the way I look at life. Loosing
someone so young and precious made me think of my own mortality.
<br>
After a lot of soul searching, counselling and long discussion
with my wife, I have come to the conclusion that “life
is too short for bad ...
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7 Votes
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with honor siriceman 11/30/2003
He was a man of honor , who fought hard till the end.Many
of us where where blessed to know him. I was in IM with him
the night he went into the lobby to tell his friend good bye.
and I was in IM with him the day we said good bye. He made a promise
to me and with the help of a friend he keep it. So it is with
a sad heart that I have to tell his friends that he passed
away on Friday Jan 28. ...
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13 Votes
,4.65 Score
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RE: TRUST HONESTY? 11/29/2003
The issue of honesty is soooo important. You first have
to be honest with yourself before you can become honest
in everything you do and say. If you are not honest with yourself,
you are lieing to yourself. When you lie to yourself you
can't see who you truly are, and what you truly want.
Therefore, you cannot be honest with those around you,
because you just don't know. Not knowing is ...
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25 Votes
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