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Es ist doch so einfach.... 2019-09-22
In meiner ersten Zeit auf alt.com, hatte ich überzogene/unrealistische
Erwartungen, dass ist mir heute, auch durch wunderbaren
Austausch mit anderen Mitgliedern, klar geworden.
Allerdings, war/ist dies mein erster Versuch der Partnersuche
über das Internet, und es ist doch einiges, was ich lernen
musste.
Zum Beispiel, dass auf Anschreiben nicht reagiert wird
(ich bin da anders ...
10 評論, 439 瀏覽次數,
48 票
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Already had a problem 2019-10-30
I've been a member here less than 24hrs and I've
been extremely polite to each and every response I've
recieved yet one member asked for my YM ID after our first
email. I politely told him that I don't give out my YM
ID's (I leave them off my profile for a reason) as I've
had problems on another site in the past. He immediately
emailed me back and rudely informed me I must be of lower ...
11 評論, 371 瀏覽次數,
34 票
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The Sun, the Moon and the Stars, and I said no thank you 2018-11-10
I was recently approached by a Dominant that offered me
potentially everything. Several homes in amazing locations,
a connection to nature and life around them, boats, cars,
lake, city, prestige, a private dungeon, freedom to spend,
shop, primp, live what could be seen as the life of Riley.
His letters to me were so far and away from the norm I receive,
they caught my attention and ...
11 評論, 452 瀏覽次數,
29 票
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geld sturen 2011-03-19
Ik ben in contact gekomen met een beeldschone Filipijnse shemale. Het eerste wat ze vroeg is of ik haar geld wilde sturen. Ze bleef aandringen. Ze wilde haar adres niet geven. Ik moest het naar een kantoor in de Filipijnen sturen. Ik heb het tensloote niet gedaan. Nu is ze boos en heeft het contact verbroken. Heb ik juist gehandeld?
Jessica
0 評論, 62 瀏覽次數,
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Ganz einfach, klar und direkt 2019-07-23
Nein Danke!
Kann und darf man eigentlich in jeder Situation sagen.
Es ist egal ob es vom Dom oder sub kommt, überhaupt bevor
es zu einer Session kommt, ist ein intensives kennen lernen
eine Grundvoraussetzung.
Wenn die Chemie nicht stimmt, kann man immer sagen „ Mit
uns, das wird nichts“
Selbst nur das beantworten einer Nachricht fällt vielen
Mitgliedern (hauptsächlich Damen) ...
1 評論, 168 瀏覽次數,
17 票
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Des exceptions la rgle 2021-11-04
Y'en a beaucoup de gens qui pensent que le seul fait
d'être du sexe opposé suffit pour avoir une relation
sexuelle. C'est foutu, si il ni a pas d'attirance envers
l'autre, sa prends des atômes crochus semblables
et le reste se fait tout seul. C'est pas ca, qui nous différencie des animaux? Une dame un jour, m'avait demande directement si je
voulais coucher avec, je lui avait répondu non ...
3 評論, 127 瀏覽次數,
17 票
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I try to be respectful 2012-01-06
Even when saying, no thank you, since respect is important.
One can not just say 'fuck off' .. well wait, one
can but it's entirely rude. Instead i like to point
out why i consider the whole effort a complete wash. It's
actually a fairly good way of pointing things out if mistakes
have been made. Things that people should consider....
i think it helps them in their searches.
Sometimes ...
2 評論, 239 瀏覽次數,
19 票
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Martel slaaf helemaal glad iedereen haat me 2023-03-16
Wie geeft me flink op mijn billen dijen en vernederd mij
?
3 評論, 101 瀏覽次數,
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I wish people would say no thanks!!! 2015-10-18
People don't just ignore e-mails!!!! Write back and
so no thanks!!! Way to many e-mails go unanswered!!!! It
is the polite thing to do!!!!
8 評論, 115 瀏覽次數,
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Ca sert quoi? 2014-08-07
Il sert à quoi de dire non merci, dans le sexe j'entend.
On veut me prendre, pourquoi dirais-je non puisque je suis
une femme, donc faite pour donner du plaisir.
D'autres désirent m'offrir à un ami ou un inconnu,
impossible de dire non, j'aime me donner et recevoir,
alors pourquoi dirais-je non merci? Patricia
5 評論, 178 瀏覽次數,
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Ehrlichkeit wird honoriert........ 2011-08-16
ein "Nein Danke" ist für mich nicht ein Problem.
Ich bin da eher aldmodisch, zumindest kommt es mir so vor,
denn ich bevorzuge es EHRLICH zu sein. So werde ich stets
direkt ein Ja oder Nein übermitteln. Leider halten es nicht
alle mit der Ehrlichkeit....!!!!!! Bisher habe ich damit
aber nur positive Erfahrungen gemacht. Auch wenn ein NEIN
meinem Gegenüber nicht so unbedingt gefällt, so ...
2 評論, 239 瀏覽次數,
12 票
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Polite rejection 2019-08-05
Have never suffered with too much ill feeling over being
rejected, although do how the arrogance of how some deliver
it. Currently if I want to tell someone they are not my type,
I have found that it softens it or puts it into perspective
to say that they are simply not my 'flavour'. Wondering
if that sounds crass? but it seems to make sense to me. Sound
like Volvo's some like Porches, some like ...
4 評論, 58 瀏覽次數,
13 票
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Not Interested 2020-06-11
What do you think is the best way to tell someone you're
not interested? Especially if it's someone that you
probably will see somewhere and don't want an awkward
situation?
15 評論, 127 瀏覽次數,
17 票
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seems easy but... 2016-11-01
Wish I had the chance to say no to some of the ladies here,
but more often is men looking for another man that do not
take NO very easily. Why don't some read profiles?
2 評論, 38 瀏覽次數,
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Nothing wrong 2016-10-15
To me there is nothing wrong with saying no thanks. I have
been in this lifestyle for many years 30 and counting. I
have seen, heard and done a lot and trust me not everything
is for everyone. Just find someone who fits you wants and
desires and then push the envelope a little but don't
go out of the comfort zone. This lifestyle only works well
with trust, openness, honesty and desire.
3 評論, 41 瀏覽次數,
9 票
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Saying no is better than bullshitting 2017-01-30
I have been approached by many women who have initially
provided me with bullshit photos so what do you say to them?
No thanks
2 評論, 109 瀏覽次數,
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Dont Take it personal.... 2011-09-14
Dont take it personal when you meet someone and the "chemistry"
just isnt there. The thing you have to remember is that 99%
of the people you meet you wont get along with EVEN if they
are physically attractive.
The key to finding the right person is knowing that YOU want
and need from a potential Dom/me sub/slave and then DONT
SETTLE for anything less.
When I am meeting someone whom I ...
2 評論, 143 瀏覽次數,
9 票
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be open and up front 2015-06-21
be open and up front and talk about what you both want and
be willing to try new things
1 評論, 28 瀏覽次數,
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CUT AND PASTE FOR SCAMMERS 2018-06-12
EVERY DAY on ALT.COM several million scammers are seeking
YOU out.! <br><br>
Does YOUR profile make you seem NEEDY ? <br><br>
<br><br>
As a PRO DOM who YES. makes a financial living from this lifestyle.
let me explain what I mean .. <br><br>
LOOK AT YOUR PROFILE , And I mean REALLY LOOK at it .. ...
1 評論, 26 瀏覽次數,
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random hits to your profile 2012-01-16
Anybody else wonder what contributes to some of randome
visits to your profile? Of course it is flaterring but curious
as well when somoeone for very far away drops by for a look.
5 評論, 176 瀏覽次數,
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melken 2019-12-26
Kan iemand me vertellen hoe ik erin kan slagen om melk te
produceren ? Dit liefst zo snel mogelijk om mijn Meester
te kunnen dienen en gelukkig te maken want Hij wilt Zijn
teef dagelijks kunnen melken als een koe. Ben al begonnen
met tepel- en tietenmassage, maar zijn er betere en snellere
middelen hiervoor ???
0 評論, 161 瀏覽次數,
6 票
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Gay/Bi Men 2024-04-12
At what point to you get rude with the pushy gay men? i usually
just give a simple No Thanks.. But some just can't take
NO... I'm sure the women deal with this all the time.
Thanks
2 評論, 60 瀏覽次數,
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Das Nein an sich 2019-09-30
Nein sagen ist wohl das schwierigste das es gibt, denn es
hat ja doch so viele konsequenzen - wie man meint  und
am besteh man hat auch noch gleich eine selbstentschuldigung
dafür parat ?!
Aber dem ist doch nichts so, wir haben es alle nur verlernt,
denn mit einem Nein, erfüllen wir alle erwartungen die
in uns gesetz werden auf keinen fall, und dass wollen wir
dank unsere erziehung ...
1 評論, 43 瀏覽次數,
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Just points to reply 2022-11-20
Just points to reply
3 評論, 107 瀏覽次數,
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To be, or not to be... 2022-01-26
I got a question. Tis it nobler or more appropriate to tell
someone their is no interest, perhaps with explanation
or to end in perpetual silence?
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Let's just say what we are thinking 2022-11-20
I know guilty of this as well times. But there
is nothing more frustrating than wasting my time on someone
who is stringing me along.
4 評論, 110 瀏覽次數,
74 票
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Let's just say what we are thinking 2022-07-05
I know guilty of this as well times. But there
is nothing more frustrating than wasting my time on someone
who is stringing me along.
2 評論, 112 瀏覽次數,
93 票
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Its a bit hard 2023-09-23
But Its hard for me to tell someone of the same sex I am not
interested because regardless I am a caring person so I
want to make sure I do not offend anyone. What's the
best advice for this?
2 評論, 87 瀏覽次數,
67 票
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Saying no in a nice way 2022-11-20
how do you usually say no to someone that you are not interested
in?
6 評論, 134 瀏覽次數,
92 票
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Anyone have any secrets they want to share? 2022-01-26
Anything taboo stories to get the convo going?
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47 票
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