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89895929 34 F
2 questions
Score 0.0
Would this world really got hypnosis? - 10/30/2016

Hypnosis can control our mind? So is it can do something we are not dare to do in reality?

17 response(s), 27 votes
Sirbob16 70 M
4 questions
Score 0.0
What changes?? - 10/27/2016

Since IM has been down and now they are saying "The system is down for upgrade and maintenance. Thanks for your patience while we continue to expand to better serve you!" How many or even your thoughts if they make this like AdultFriendFinder. I for one will not support thayt kind of change. Thanks

13 response(s), 25 votes
seillean 75 M
1 question
Score 0.0
cd looking for interesting people - 10/23/2016

Why no IM?

2 response(s), 16 votes
subboy660 68 M
1 question
Score 0.0
real bondage misstress, humiliatrix - 10/23/2016

I'm relatively new to this site and would like to know how to know if a woman I'm talking to is for real or if anyone has had problems with her such as being a phony.

7 response(s), 15 votes
submanbxl 68 M
5 questions
Score 0.0
Why do other subs view my sub profile and ask if i want to Dominate them? - 10/15/2016

Really, my profile's clear enough, my nick includes the word 'sub' and yet still i get messages from subs saying' i'm looking for someone to dominate me'. Are they scammers, or just plain dumb? It amuses more than annoys me, but i'd love to know why.

9 response(s), 30 votes
blueyesman37 37 M
1 question
Score 0.0
How long does it take before the team from Alt accept a profile? - 10/13/2016

I am trying to get onto the chat rooms and it will not let me. It says the team have to view the profile. I was wondering how long before I can get into the room.

5 response(s), 12 votes
Sirbob16 70 M
4 questions
Score 0.0
Married, Partnered, - 10/11/2016

I am sure many of you have come across subs seeking play and then find out they are married, partnered or whatever. I wonder what everyone's thoughts are on this. I used to feel one way but have changed my point of view.

16 response(s), 17 votes
biass4all 57 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Is it true? - 10/7/2016

Since I have lived what I would call a "sheltered life", is it true that black men have the largest and thickest penises? Or is what I am seeing in some pictures just photo shopped?

If it is true, do any of you think I have what it takes to get one to fuck me?

I have been watching a lot of sissy porn and have been dreaming of a hard, deep breeding from one of these superior ...

2 response(s), 14 votes
subsatheart 67 C
4 questions
Score 0.0
HELP seeking couple owning/dominating couple porn - 10/6/2016

We love the thought of serving a dominant bi couple, but can't find any porn of it. Can anyone help???

5 response(s), 15 votes
aldompdx 62 M
11 questions
Score 0.0
Just how stupid is Ventnor Enterprise Ltd.? - 9/28/2016

Just how stupid is Ventnor Enterprise Ltd.? They are affirmatively working to alienate members and motivate them to NOT login.

My profile and other preferences are for women, yet Ventnor [alt.com] routinely places a cock shot or penis masturbation right in the middle of the home page -- and it is the largest photo they display [members broadcasting now] .

I have gone through ...

7 response(s), 34 votes
asianat2008 69 M
115 questions
Score 0.0
Friendly lady... - 9/19/2016

I was on a social site. suddenly the massage box opens with a lady and she posts nude pictures of fucking and pussy and tells high. I see them and say to her high and give some advancing texts. She sees them and again posts fucking posts. It was bit exciting and my texts might have gave enjoyment. My question whether sexy texts and photos be exchanged if the lady on social site sends them on ...

8 response(s), 24 votes
89895929 34 F
2 questions
Score 0.0
isn't all the DOM/MASTER will afford ? - 9/16/2016

isn't it all DOM/MASTER will afford all living fee of submissive/slave? isn't all of submissive or slave should be horny in all time? all of submissive or slave don't need working at outside? just stay at home waiting their DOM /MASTER?

16 response(s), 38 votes
starburst54 69 M
1 question
Score 0.0
submissive or slave? - 9/14/2016

where do women make the distinction between being submissive and being a slave?

9 response(s), 17 votes
Phyl054 70 F
2 questions
Score 0.0
Butt plug preferences - 9/4/2016

There are so many different options when it comes to butt plugs: plastic, glass, metal, vibrating, remote control, inflatable, all sorts of sizes, etc. My Dom requires me to be wearing one when I arrive for each session, and I have recently begun wearing one more and more at other times. What are your preferences and why? My favorite one so far is glass. Put up a picture of your favorite(s) ...

12 response(s), 23 votes
differntstrokes 62 M
10 questions
Score 0.0
Profiles - 9/2/2016

Has anyone else noticed on profiles, that against the section, 'Smoking, ' it now gives a number 1. In the section, 'Drinking.' it states 2. 'Have ' states 1. I tried changing it back to NO's on my own profile, but it's still the same. Have I missed something regarding this numbering system, or is this just another ALT faux-pas?

4 response(s), 11 votes
badbobbie2007 67 T
1 question
Score 0.0
Vacuum devices for breast enlargement. Do they work or just suck? - 9/1/2016

So I am sure everyone has seen or has knowledge about penis pumps and/or breast pumps. I would imagine that if they worked even a little bit for anything more than very brief enlargement, that every women (or man) would have a pump by puberty if not sooner. Same for penis pumps. Anyone have any luck with them? What are the risks beside bruising, blood clots, waste of money, etc? Thanks!

1 response(s), 9 votes
popeyej45 72 C
10 questions
Score 0.0
now what - 9/1/2016

I'm lost again. What do the numbers in peoples profiles mean in answer to the questions like smoking, body type, drinking, etc????

5 response(s), 8 votes
Phyl054 70 F
2 questions
Score 0.0
Nipple Clamp Preference and Experience? - 8/28/2016

Do you have a favorite kind of nipple clamp? My Dom owns and uses several types, and I was just curious what other Doms and subs prefer. Clothespins; butterfly clamps; alligator clip; screw on; paper clamps; c-clamps; glue clamps...or any other? All I know is that when my nipples get clamped, it is like they are "hard wired" to my clit...and I cum like a fountain, especially if my breasts are ...

6 response(s), 22 votes
Switchinneed 38 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
How many of you guys have had trouble finding suitable quality latex. - 8/25/2016

Hey guys

How many of you have had difficulty finding descent latex clothing and how many are finding it hard to get it at a descent price the reason I ask is I have trawled various sites and found that some either are poor quality rubber or have a pitiful selection to choose from or cost the earth but only do certain sizes whats your experience of this issue?

2 response(s), 7 votes
countrysub2001 69 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Am I responsible - 8/24/2016

First off I want to thank everyone for their input into this matter now to issue I have. Last night I was on the site and watching some cam when I came across a girl who had her age listed as 18. Now let me tell you if she was 18 then I am 45. I believe its everyone's right to do as they choose but I can not accept . What I am asking is it my responsibility to report and who should I report ...

10 response(s), 17 votes
northernman1234 59 M
1 question
Score 0.0
what is spining - 8/1/2016

I know what pnp mean but no idea about what spun is.

10 response(s), 9 votes
asianat2008 69 M
115 questions
Score 0.0
Why a man desires to fuck at the age of 60 more and more?. - 7/27/2016

Man is a wonder of creation. age comes and he starts to fancy woman around him and masturbates. Sometimes woman around him helps him to start masturbating episode. All said and done, he loves sex througout his life. He is never satisfied sexually. At the ripe age of 60 around, he still loves company of woman. He fucks if opportunity permits and the woman around him agrees to have sex with him. ...

9 response(s), 22 votes
Suzy_Que 53 T
2 questions
Score 0.0
Blog or forum about this site? - 7/23/2016

Is there a place where issues with alt are discussed? For example, comments about pictures are not showing up for me (I just get the spinning wheel) and I'd like to know if things like this are widespread or just a problem with my connection or browser. I'm not looking for a complaint board, but just information about known problems. Thanks! Suzy



5 response(s), 17 votes
perthbisub1 59 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Vids - 7/21/2016

Any one else having trouble watching vid on profiles? I could see vids a few weeks ago, haven't changed any settings and now the video page won't load. Any suggestions or is this site going down the drain?

2 response(s), 9 votes
MissElle2012 65 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Have you been told about any positions being off-limits after joint replacement surgery? - 7/16/2016

Has anyone still been able to "Ride him Cowgirl" after a knee replacement surgery using one of the artificial joints recently available? Or has doing that been a problem?

I'll be talking to my orthopedic surgeon next week about having one in the future, and want to be able to cite some experiences after broaching the subject--because not all of his patients may have been honest with ...

8 response(s), 19 votes
markt18222 51 M
1 question
Score 0.0
sex...lust...rage...agression...,violence... - 7/9/2016

So for some reason (Godonly knows...) "...sex...lust...rage...agression..., violence...' <- they are all wired into our very DNA ...but in a big, twisted, knotted mess...we all are aware of this, just some can't admit to or are in denial about the taboo shadow that preveils over every aspect of our sexuality... "PC?" Politically ...

6 response(s), 24 votes
late_bloomer 57 M
8 questions
Score 0.0
A question with nothing to do with bdsm... - 6/26/2016

I need a new cell phone. For the last four years I've been using a 'cheapie' that I picked up for $50 that basically does nothing but make and receive calls and texts and doesn't have enough memory to do anything online but occasionally check a bus schedule... and I've been perfectly fine with that.

But the world has moved on and it's getting harder and harder to get by without a smart ...

8 response(s), 12 votes
popeyej45 72 C
10 questions
Score 0.0
How?? - 6/16/2016

O.k. I'm totally confused. With the new rules the ALT gods have put in place, what can a non- paying member do?? How do I as a paying member communicate with non-paying members without my paying extra?? Can they respond to my message or read my profile?? Can they do anything?? Help.

13 response(s), 24 votes
kentuckiana 65 M
6 questions
Score 0.0
Opening up about lifestyle interests? - 6/10/2016

When acquainted with others as work acquaintances, or neighbors; what is the best way to share, (without embarrassment for anyone involved) a common, lifestyle interest? Not that they, or you are necessarily interested in hooking up, but just to avoid embarrassment; should you recognize one another at a "meet & greet?"

2 response(s), 13 votes
steelwand 56 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Why do so many men like to dress as woman? - 6/10/2016

Hi alt community. I am a divorced guy and I myself like to dress up n panties and nylons. I always thought growing up that I was alone in this. I am just curios why there are so many men that actually like dressing up in woman's attire? I never realized there were so many guys that like doing this who like me are married or were married. This isn't so much an advise line question but I was ...

17 response(s), 23 votes