I was a Dominant, both professionally and personally, for the last 10+ years. I'm from SF but I lived overseas and also in NYC and soCal from 2017-2020 before moving back to SF a few years ago. I spent many years as a guide training novice submissives into subspace. If need be, can be *very* strict but I'm naturally loving, and very easy, especially with submissives who are new to the lifestyle. I've also spent quite a bit of time with atypical subs; those who carry a lot of power with them in their daily lives and thus require the surrender that submission provides.
I'm someone who will truly train you. I'm uniquely experienced with world-wide qualities that you'll likely be surprised to discover. I do have my own life, and a stable identity that I'm not looking to provoke. I'm capable of managing daily financial, psychological, emotional, physical, and professional needs alongside this lifestyle and I have successfully for many many years. I don't expect to find someone in the same position I'm in, but I'm also not in the position to connect to anyone who has instability in their life to a point where it brings unnecessary anxiety, nescience or turmoil. I'm truly just a genuine Dominant looking for a younger female novice submissive who is looking to learn while still maintaining her life.[SIZE 3][/SIZE][COLOR blue][/COLOR]
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My Ideal Person:
I'm a strong sapiosexual. So I primarily connect to those who have, at least, a 4 year degree. *But as with everything, there are always exceptions. As I said, I'm looking for a younger novice submissive, but I'd also like someone who is self-aware enough that they've explored subspace on their own to some extent. I'd like to find someone who understands that, at least for this part of their life, submission is a part of who they are and they want therefore to explore it.
Like I said, in the past, I worked the most with subs who held quite a bit of responsibility in their daily lives and thus need the accedence that submission brings to balance themselves. But I've also guided many others through subspace in many other types of situations, not always through sexual play. But I *am* most interested in finding a submissive who feels she can be obedient, patient, respectful and complaisant: a submissive who will think of her Mistress' instructions as her own and leave her own needs as secondary. It is also very important that the submissive have her own independent space - be it her private home or a separate independent play space.
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