|
Looking for an open minded and adventurous female to explore our fetishes around BDSM and build an ongoing relationship with.
I have been successful in my professional life, but never really taken the risk in my personal life. I'm looking to meet interesting and sexually minded individuals to make new friends and expand my horizons. I'm predominantly dominant and enjoy all forms of sexual play. I would describe myself as a switch though.
I would describe my dominant side/style as sensual dominantation. I enjoy being firm with my partners and taking her in ways I desire. I encourage my partners to share their desires, kinks and fetishes, but when I'm in charge I decide how these are are incorporated in our play and our time together, within the boundaries we have discussed and agreed. Ultimately it's about us both having a great time and building our trust and connection together.
Every now and then I like to give over control to another. I have never met a partner who truly enjoyed do this for their own pleasure...There is a huge difference to being truly dominated or topped versus having someone run though a script of your wants...Hopefully I can meet some people on here who can help me to experience something new and evolve my understanding of the sub space.
I am less interested in an affair and more seeking a FWB type relationship with someone who is in a similar situation and understands the need for discretion. I am not looking to hurt anyone in my life or a potential partners and I am not seeking to change anyone's circumstances. What I think would work is to be with someone who I have a great connection with and who is excited and interested in sex and BDSM as much as I am. Sometimes we my meet at a Hotel and other times we may do things more public or in the outdoors (which I really enjoy).
I am married. I am up front about that. I'm am not looking to change mine or anyone else's situation, enter into this with me fully aware! I haven't made the decision to play outside my marriage lightly. I am happy to share my personal circumstances once you get to know me a little.
For a little bit of fun I did the bdsmtest.org survey. The results were a little surprising to me and I think would change depending on mood at the time of taking the test. As of April 2021 they tell me:
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Switch
93% Voyeur
90% Experimentalist
89% Rope bunny
80% Submissive
80% Rigger
77% Sadist
75% Brat
75% Dominant
69% Brat tamer
68% Slave
67% Masochist
63% Primal (Hunter)
60% Non-monogamist
60% Degradee
57% Master/Mistress
55% Owner
53% Primal (Prey)
53% Vanilla
46% Pet
42% Exhibitionist
27% Degrader
9% Daddy/Mommy
0% Boy/Girl
0% Ageplayer
[if254 1]
My Ideal Person:
I am really looking to meet someone local who I can explore a real friendship and our mutual fetishes around a BDSM relationship.
I am open to providing remote domination to 1 or 2 people. This could be great fun for both of us. Msg me if your are interested in this and we can see if we click! If you want to try this, know that I am not interested in your personal details or even photos that expose your identity. I think it would be great fun to have some real mystery to this arrangement.
My ideal person....
Has fetishes they have experienced and like, so has some idea about what they want
Has fetishes they wish to try with a trusted and non judgemental partner.
We share similar or compatible fetishes.
Is open to the new in the world.
Is open and vulnerable and willing to share their deepest desires with someone they trust.
Knows when to say stop or no.
Knows when to say more and harder.
Is looking for a real genuine connection.
Loves to smile and laugh everyday.
|
3,683 Members Online NOW!
