I am a real life Dominant Female Sadist. I have over 15 years of experience in kink. For several years I ran my own BDSM studio where I taught women how to responsibly and effectively take control of their sexuality, and taught men how to lead a balanced life of service and self-care. I was mentored by Madame Cleo Dubois. I was featured in an MTV documentary. I have published articles in Spread magazine and published erotic photography all over the web. My career is that of feature film producer. But I also make music, do sound design for movies, and write books.
I am very knowledgeable about all things BSDM, so if you are new to it and have questions in that regard, I am here to help. I am also very willing to learn new things from experienced subs and add to my toolbox, so to speak.
My motto is obedience equals affection. I do NOT enjoy or tolerate intentional misbehavior and acting out for attention. Part of the fun for me is that the sub is turned by their role of absolute deference.
I am interested in total FLR. I am not monogamous, but expect total devotion and absolute unyielding control of a manâs sexuality in my long term relationships.
Here is a list of some of the things in the realm of BDSM that I have done (in the Dominant role), am knowledgeable about, and enjoy. Feel free to ask me about any of these kinks. In no particular order
Spanking
Flogging
Paddling
Caning (a favorite!)
Slapping
Trampling
Sensory Deprivation
Sensory Play (fur, feathers, leather, ice, sharps, etc.)
Breath Play
Mummification (plastic, bandages)
Swaddling
Electrical Play (E-stim, TENS, Violet Wand)
Physical Examination
Endurance Training and Exhaustion
CBT
Clips and Clamps
Milking
Sounds
Orgasm or Pleasure Denial
Basic Bondage (leather and rope)
Captivity
Interrogation
Testing
Celibacy and Chastity Training
Cuckolding
Foot and Boot Worship (on the receiving end of course)
Puppy Play
Pegging
Gaping
Gagging
Spitting
Food Play
Playful Humiliation
Financial Domination
Piercing
Branding
Smothering
Choking
Forced Intoxication
Gender Bending or Cross-Dressing
Exhibitionism
Competition
Forced Bi
Scenting
Prearranged Non-Consent
Things I am NOT into (but I do not judge)
SAMs and brats
Wrestling
Racial Humiliation
Switching or subbing
Any subs with whom I play must be subs that I am attracted to on many levels (and that often has little to do with looks or age, but everything to do with attitude, intelligence, and a delightfully dirty mind). I know what I want and what I like and am willing to take the time to train subs to please me. This is a lifestyle for me, and not simply a hobby.
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My Ideal Person:
I'm looking for subs of any age or experience level who want an intense experience serving a real Dominant Woman who can respect their humanity and individuality while at the time treating them like a pet, a servant, and sometimes an object or piece of meat (if that just turned you on, you're in the right place). I like men who are creative, flexible, obedient, with masochistic tendencies. Your goal must be to please me, not to frustrate me so I'll punish you. I can give you plenty of correction without the annoyance of intentional defiance.
An interest in films and art is a big plus. Good written communication skills and a way with words will win me over pretty quickly. Someone willing to have his sexuality controlled completely, offering his devotion, while accepting that my own sexuality is mine, and I will do what I please with whomever I like (in other words, if cuckolding or becoming part of a harem are an interest, we have something in common here).
I may be in a minority of women who love to look at a nice cock, whether it's free and at attention, or straining against the confines of a chastity device. In regards to looks, I'm not that interested in whether you are fit or handsome if there's chemistry. Depth of connection is more important than surface attraction.
Finally, honesty - about yourself, about your limits, about your opinions and thoughts and feelings, is mandatory. Dishonesty is a dealbreaker. Know yourself so that you can allow me to know you.
Tell me something you're passionate about...
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