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It has been over a year since I've been here and my interests have changed. I will be updating my profile accordingly, but to summarize, I am more of a Mommy than a dom and only feel the urge to dominate certain personalities, so that takes time getting to know someone. Granted, I was never looking for flings here. Now, I'm more interested in an experienced, caring individual or individuals willing to take my brattiness under their wings as a little. I am, however, open to any offers. I'm not too serious about any of this because I don't have any "hardcore" experience.
Annd my pic is old. I'm a chubber now. But that should be changing. Old info below is still relevant too, but like I said, I'll be updating everything eventually!
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At first glance, most wouldn't think of me as the dominant type, but while motherly, I most certainly am. I am not a full-on dominatrix or a regular member of the BDSM community, so if you are looking for something hardcore or for someone to play a part and exhibit by-the-book perfection, I am not your girl. Nor is that really what makes a dominant.
I have a babyface and overall young appearance, and I'm in my early 20s, but I'd hope you wouldn't judge a book by its cover. I have both a kind, soft-spoken, playful side and a stern, serious side. I like calm, quiet days, cuddles, hot tea, a soft breeze, and the freedom to do what I want when I want it to get done.
I understand and honor completely that a submissive is to be taken care of and given catalysts for growth, not to be used and abused. Even outside of a 24/7 arrangement, or even within a no-limits agreement, the well-being of the submissive is the dominant's joy and responsibility.
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And though I am not a switch, I will consider a Daddy (not just a regular Dom or someone who likes to be called daddy). Or a Mommy. It's not very likely that I'd find someone to my liking in that category, but I will put it out there. I love caring for others in terms of guidance and support, but being cared for is a rare experience for me. So keep in mind that I'll be a brat at best because it takes a lot to successfully care for a caregiver.
If control is what you seek, you will not find it here. To me, a dd/lg relationship is completely different from a D/s one. It's not just a D/s relationship with ageplay. For me, ageplay isn't a part at all. It's a relationship where both parties are allowed to be more vulnerable and open with each other, and where the nurturing role is heightened and centered over the role of guidance or restriction.
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My Ideal Person:
I'm interested in a long-term arrangement with someone mature enough to know their boundaries/limits and someone who, in conjunction with their "submissive" label, is comfortable with not being in control. Someone who understands any relationship is built on trust and communication and who is not seeking a stereotypical or skewed image of what bdsm or a dominant should be.
My main interests are teasing/edging, mild sissification (lace and lingerie), light puppy play, and I'm willing to experiment and try other things. Sex may or may not become a part of the relationship later as we get to know each other.
As a little, I'd be looking for someone wanting to build a strong relationship and pamper someone. Someone loving/empathetic and able to contain a lot of energy.
In either case, this person would be open to growth and learning, regardless of whether he identifies as a dom, sub, or switch.
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